Separation
Anxiety
Most people assume separation anxiety is a childhood condition. DSM-5 removed that age restriction for a reason — it is common in adults, most adult cases begin in adulthood, and it is routinely treated as panic disorder or agoraphobia instead.
What is adult separation anxiety disorder?
Adult separation anxiety disorder — recognized in DSM-5 — involves excessive fear about separation from attachment figures, persistent worry about losing them, and reluctance to be alone. No medication carries an FDA indication for it specifically, so treatment combines SSRIs, with evidence extrapolated from other anxiety disorders, and CBT. Dr. Farkas evaluates for co-occurring panic disorder, agoraphobia, and mood disorders.
Separation anxiety disorder is fear organized around a person rather than a place or a performance. The worry is that something will happen to an attachment figure — a partner, a parent, a child — or that you'll be separated from them permanently. It produces reluctance to travel, to sleep away from home, or to be alone, and it often comes with physical symptoms when separation is anticipated.
Until 2013 it was defined as a childhood disorder. DSM-5 moved it into the anxiety disorders chapter and removed the childhood-onset requirement, which changed who can be diagnosed. The data behind that change matters: the National Comorbidity Survey Replication estimated a lifetime prevalence of 6.6% for adult separation anxiety disorder and 4.1% for the childhood form, and found that 77.5% of adult cases had first onset in adulthood — not carried over from childhood at all.
That history explains the main clinical problem. Because the diagnosis was unavailable in adults for so long, adults with these symptoms were routinely assigned to panic disorder, agoraphobia, or generalized anxiety disorder instead. Those labels aren't absurd — the presentations overlap — but they point treatment at the wrong target. Agoraphobia is fear of situations where escape is difficult. Separation anxiety is fear of being apart from a specific person. Someone can leave the house comfortably with their partner and not at all without them, and that pattern is diagnostic.
The disorder also travels with other conditions. Panic disorder, agoraphobia, and mood disorders co-occur frequently, and separation anxiety is sometimes what remains after those have been treated and something still isn't right.
Dr. Farkas brings MD/PhD neuroscience training, NIH research center experience, and board-certified psychiatric practice to that sorting. Her 30–60 minute evaluations are built to identify what the fear is actually organized around before treatment is aimed at it.
What separation anxiety looks like in adults
Conditions as classified in the DSM-5-TR, which requires symptoms lasting six months or more in adults. This page is educational and is not a diagnostic tool.
How Dr. Farkas treats separation anxiety disorder
Evidence-based, neurobiologically informed, and honest about where the evidence is thinner than anyone would like.

What to expect from your first appointment
A new patient evaluation with Dr. Farkas runs 30–60 minutes. It covers your psychiatric and medical history, when the fear started and what was happening at the time, who it centers on, what you've stopped doing because of it, and every medication tried and how each one went.
You'll leave with a specific diagnosis explained in plain terms, a treatment plan you understand and agree with, and a follow-up already scheduled. Telehealth is available throughout South Carolina and New York. In-person appointments are available at the Hilton Head Island, SC office.
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Medical disclaimer: This page is for educational purposes and does not constitute medical advice. No doctor–patient relationship is established through website use. Individual results vary; no specific outcome is guaranteed. Telehealth visits are conducted on a HIPAA-compliant platform. Gabriella I. Farkas, MD PhD, is a board-certified psychiatrist licensed in South Carolina and New York.
Get the diagnosis
that actually fits
30–60 minutes. A specific answer. Treatment aimed at what the fear is really organized around.
Adult separation anxiety disorder — recognized in DSM-5 — involves excessive fear about separation from attachment figures, persistent worry about losing them, and reluctance to be alone. No medication carries an FDA indication for it specifically, so treatment combines SSRIs, with evidence extrapolated from other anxiety disorders, and CBT. Dr. Farkas evaluates for co-occurring panic disorder, agoraphobia, and mood disorders.
Key Takeaways
- Adult separation anxiety disorder involves excessive fear of separation from attachment figures and worry about losing them.
- No medication is FDA-approved for it specifically, so treatment combines SSRIs with CBT.
- Evaluation checks for co-occurring panic disorder and other anxiety conditions.
- Non-addictive medications are preferred over benzodiazepines for ongoing anxiety.
Frequently Asked Questions
What's the safest medication for chronic anxiety?
SSRIs and SNRIs have the strongest long-term safety and efficacy evidence. Buspirone is a non-sedating, non-addictive option for generalized anxiety. Benzodiazepines are effective short-term but carry dependence risk and are avoided as chronic treatment where possible.
How is anxiety diagnosed?
Diagnosis requires structured clinical interview covering symptom pattern, duration, functional impairment, and rule-outs (thyroid dysfunction, cardiac arrhythmia, substance use, medications). Validated tools (GAD-7, PSWQ) supplement clinical assessment.
Can I stop anxiety medication once I feel better?
Discontinuation is planned, not abrupt. Most SSRIs require slow tapering to avoid discontinuation syndrome. Dr. Farkas typically continues for 9–12 months after remission before considering taper, timing to a low-stress period.
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Adult separation anxiety disorder — recognized in DSM-5 — involves excessive fear about separation from attachment figures, persistent worry about their loss, and reluctance to be alone. Treatment combines SSRIs (evidence extrapolated from other anxiety disorders) with CBT. Dr. Farkas evaluates for co-occurring panic disorder, agoraphobia, and mood disorders.
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Frequently Asked Questions
Is separation anxiety only in children?
No. DSM-5 explicitly recognizes adult separation anxiety disorder. Adults may present with intense fear when apart from partners, family, or pets, along with functional impairment.
What treatments help?
SSRIs based on evidence from related anxiety disorders, combined with CBT focused on autonomy, tolerance of separation, and correction of catastrophic thinking. Dr. Farkas coordinates with CBT-trained therapists.
How common is adult separation anxiety?
Studies suggest lifetime prevalence around 6%, though under-recognition and misdiagnosis as panic or generalized anxiety are common.
Related pages
Separation Anxiety
Separation Anxiety Disorder is characterized by excessive fear or anxiety about separation from primary attachment figures, most common in children and adolescents though occurring in adults.
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Understanding Separation Anxiety
Separation anxiety disorder involves excessive fear about separation from attachment figures. While some separation anxiety is developmentally normal, disorder-level anxiety significantly impairs functioning and causes distress.
Common Symptoms
Emotional & Psychological
- Excessive worry about separation from attachment figure
- Fear of harm befalling attachment figure
- Reluctance or refusal to be away from home
- Nightmares about separation scenarios
Physical & Behavioral
- Physical symptoms with separation (stomach pain, headaches)
- Sleep resistance and nighttime distress
- Clinging behaviors and attachment intensity
- School or activity refusal due to separation anxiety
How Separation Anxiety is Diagnosed
Separation anxiety diagnosis requires assessing anxiety's focus on separation, its intensity, and functional impairment across contexts. Dr. Farkas evaluates whether presentation meets disorder criteria and identifies appropriate treatment.
Why Choose Dr. Farkas for Separation Anxiety Treatment
Child & Adolescent Expertise
Specialized knowledge of developmental anxiety and age-appropriate treatment strategies.
Therapy Support
Medication reducing anxiety intensity enabling therapy focusing on separation tolerance development.
Attachment Sensitivity
Understanding of healthy attachment while reducing pathological separation anxiety patterns.
Family Consultation
Guidance for parents/caregivers supporting child's anxiety reduction and healthy autonomy development.
Ready for Separation Anxiety Treatment?
Expert psychiatric care helps children and adolescents overcome separation anxiety. Dr. Gabriella Farkas provides compassionate, developmentally-informed treatment.
Call (917) 267-9678 for Your ConsultationNext Steps
Schedule Your Evaluation
Contact Dr. Farkas to schedule your child's comprehensive psychiatric evaluation. New patient appointments typically available within 2-4 weeks. During the first appointment, Dr. Farkas will:
- Conduct thorough separation anxiety symptom assessment
- Evaluate functional impact across contexts
- Perform comprehensive psychiatric evaluation
- Develop personalized treatment plan with family input
Treatment Options
Based on evaluation, Dr. Farkas discusses anxiety medication reducing distress, therapy referral, and family strategies supporting separation tolerance development.
Ongoing Care
Regular appointments monitor anxiety reduction, adjust medications, support therapy progress, and help families manage separation anxiety successfully.
Related Resources
Evidence-Based Resources
Learn more from authoritative sources:
Anxiety & Depression Association of America National Institute of Mental Health American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry
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